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Crystal, twenty one, RVA.
Sister, lover, French major, radical birth doula, cheerful barista, feminist, pagan (goddess-centered folk magic & traditional witchcraft), anti-oppression, queer, white, polyamorous, kinky, French Canadian, Hufflepuff, in love with pizza and my cat.
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Sister, lover, French major, radical birth doula, cheerful barista, feminist, pagan (goddess-centered folk magic & traditional witchcraft), anti-oppression, queer, white, polyamorous, kinky, French Canadian, Hufflepuff, in love with pizza and my cat.
♊ sun, ♎ moon, ♏ rising.
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Things I enjoy:
Activism, animals, bagels, bike rides, biting my nails, body positiviy, camping, chapstick, cold feet, collages, concerts, corgis, cows, crafting, cuddling, dachshunds, dirt, embroidery, Enya’s hair, every single fruit, feminism, fighting oppression, fires, French, gender, grammar, glasses of water, Harry Potter, herbalism, hiking, intersections, jewelry, leafy greens, learning, lots of pillows, making flyers, making friends, making out, making plans, meditation, mountains, movies, music, my brother, nature, not cooking, pasta, pens, pizza, politics, polyamory, praying, protests, queer rights, reading, ribbons, riot grrrl, sangria, sex, swimming, taking my vitamins, tattoos, tea, traveling, washing my hair, water fights, weed, woods, writing, zines.
Navigate the things I blog about:
My face
Feminism
Birth/midwifery
My real life
Art
Crafts
Race/racism
My cat
Polyamory
BDSM/kink
Poetry
Queer issues
Beautiful people
Food
Music
Eating disorders
Recovery
Beautiful things
Harry Potter
Skins
Spirituality
Paganism
• Why Donate?
• Ask me anything
My tiger, my heart
When I saw this as a thumbnail image I really thought it was a Hufflepuff whip which would have been SO PERFECT for that one plan…
Anonymous asked: so I've always been curious... if you do kink so hard you get bruises like that, how the hell do you sit down the next day??? doesn't it make your non-sex-life more painful and difficult to deal with?
Well umm, it does make it painful the next day (and the next day, and often the next day). But I like that because it’s a nice reminder? Like I can be going about my day and suddenly it’s like “ouch, thanks babe” and I’m overcome with lots of things. For me at least, hurting for the next few days is totally part of the appeal.
cuntweather asked disgustingquestions:does no one realize that the relationship between D&S is one of trust? Both parties know the boundaries and allowed levels of pain. THEY talked about it and THEY agreed on terms/tools and most likely SAFETY WORDS for BOTH of them. THEY & BOTH in capitals because it’s not one bully kicking the shit out of some vulnerable tied up person, no, it’s two(+) parties enjoying a kink together and if that includes the term “beating” than maybe, just maybe, that term is part of their kink???????? jaysus!!
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I like to think “beating” is a reclamation.
